From Feeder Fantasy to Freedom: How Patty Sanchez Took Back Her Life
Love can lead people down unexpected paths, and for Patty Sanchez, it took her to a place of extreme obesity. She believed she had found love when she met a feeder who was attracted to her size, and their relationship soon revolved around her weight gain.
What started as a connection at a party quickly escalated into a lifestyle where Patty consumed an astonishing 10,000 calories daily. She embraced her growing body, saying, “The more I weigh, the sexier I feel.”
Her goal was to become the world’s heaviest woman, pushing her intake to 13,000 calories a day for years—despite knowing the risks to her health.
A Turning Point
Patty’s world changed when her relationship with the feeder ended. By then, she was bedridden, weighing 51 stone (over 700 pounds), and completely dependent on others for daily tasks.
The reality hit hard. She could no longer care for herself, and even her relationship with her sons suffered. They struggled to see their mother trapped in a body that no longer allowed her to live. That was the moment Patty knew she had to make a change.
Determined to reclaim her life, she enlisted the help of her sons. She slashed 10,000 calories from her diet and started incorporating light exercise into her routine. Within three months, her efforts paid off—she began losing weight, and her relationship with her children improved.
A New Love, A New Life
During her transformation, Patty found unexpected love in Bryan Johnson, a man 14 years her junior. Unlike her past relationship, Bryan encouraged her to focus on her health.
Together, they built a lifestyle centered on wellness. With Bryan’s support, Patty adopted a daily routine of yoga and weightlifting, along with a balanced diet. In just three months of living together, she shed nearly three stone (around 40 pounds).
“Bryan has changed my life,” Patty shared. “I’ve never felt love like this. He keeps me moving and active. Before, I was too heavy to do anything, but now I have my zest for life back.”
While Bryan encourages her weight loss, his love for her is unwavering. He insists that his only concern is her health, not her size. He’s excited about their future together and dreams of starting a family with Patty.
Patty’s story is a powerful reminder that love should uplift, not confine. And sometimes, true love is what helps us rediscover ourselves.