There was a time when catching a glimpse of Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman’s adopted children, Bella and Connor, was nearly impossible.
However, times have changed, and the siblings are now more visible, sharing snippets of their lives on social media. Both Bella, also known as Isabella, and Connor have fully embraced the teachings of Scientology, which plays a central role in their lives.
Tom Cruise’s deep commitment to Scientology has long been a significant aspect of his life, often taking precedence over family matters. His involvement in the church has not only shaped his personal choices but also affected his relationships, including his ten-year marriage to Nicole Kidman.
According to former Scientology executive Mike Rinder’s book A Billion Years: My Escape from a Life in the Highest Ranks of Scientology, the church saw Kidman as a negative influence due to her lack of interest in Scientology, creating a rift between her and Cruise.
Despite Kidman’s disinterest, the two children they adopted during their marriage, Bella and Connor, have remained devoted to Scientology. Now in their early 30s, their commitment to the church has caused tension with Kidman, who no longer has a relationship with them. In Scientology, those who leave the church are considered “Suppressive Persons,” meaning members are encouraged to cut ties with them—even family members.
Cruise’s strong ties to Scientology have influenced other relationships, too. His romance with actress Penelope Cruz reportedly ended in 2004 because she refused to convert to the religion. His marriage to Katie Holmes also ended in 2012, with Holmes seeking sole custody of their daughter, Suri. Cruise is said to have no ongoing relationship with Suri, likely due to his continued devotion to Scientology.
Although his bond with Suri is reportedly nonexistent, Cruise remains close to Bella and Connor, who are both proud members of the Church of Scientology. Bella, who holds a prominent role in the church, has expressed deep gratitude for Scientology. In a testimonial for the church, she described it as giving her clarity and a sense of purpose, crediting her father and his sister, Cass Mapother, for supporting her during her training to become an auditor—someone who helps individuals through the church’s self-improvement processes.
Bella currently resides in London with her husband, Max Parker, living a relatively modest life. She also runs her own brand, Bella Kidman Cruise, which features t-shirts adorned with her artwork, a passion she has nurtured from a young age. Though her social media mostly showcases her art, she occasionally gives followers a peek into her personal life.
Connor, on the other hand, lives in Clearwater, Florida, near Scientology’s headquarters. His lifestyle is more outdoorsy, with a focus on deep-sea fishing, a passion he has developed in recent years. Though he once dabbled in acting, appearing in films like Red Dawn and Seven Pounds, Connor has since stepped away from the spotlight. He lives a simple life within a Scientology community, maintaining a strong connection to his faith.
In summary, Bella and Connor, who once lived out of the public eye, now lead lives deeply intertwined with Scientology. Their connection to the church remains a key aspect of their identities, and while their relationship with their mother, Nicole Kidman, has been affected by their devotion, they have each found their own way within the religion. Whether through Bella’s artistic endeavors or Connor’s passion for fishing, they continue to embrace their roles within the church and remain proud of their faith.