I started dating a millionaire about five months ago. He seemed charming and kind, but something about him always felt off. After just one month together, he began talking about marriage and having children with me — it felt overwhelming, almost like he was trying to move too fast. I couldn’t shake the feeling that it was love bombing, that he wasn’t exactly who he appeared to be.
One evening, we had dinner at his house. Everything was fine until, out of nowhere, he asked for the passwords to my social media accounts and wanted me to share my location with him at all times. That crossed a line for me. I told him I needed to go.
He noticed my discomfort and tried to justify his request, saying, “I’ve had a traumatic relationship in the past — I’d feel safer if you agreed.” But no matter the reason, it didn’t sit right with me. I left his house that night and blocked him on everything.
When I told my friends, some said I’d overreacted — that giving him access wasn’t such a big deal. But deep down, I know trust shouldn’t come with control. Was I wrong to walk away?